Victoria Inyama, the Nollywood veteran actress and psychotherapist, has revealed that leaving a harmful marriage can be challenged as one is already structured with life and offered clue that will assist people during the situation.

Victoria disclosed that leaving is not the solution but something can be done in preparation for the person leaving the inconvenience home.

She gave some clue that will assist people to prepare for the uncertainty.

The statement read:

Leaving a Toxic marriage/relationship is Hard; I personally couldn’t leave cause l had lost myself in the marriage beguiled by religion & culture Leaving is not automatic, here are some tips based on my life experiences

Find a reliable friend to confide in ( don’t be like me, l was confiding in one of his sides.

Get specialist support, you can pop into a local charity ‘drop in’ center. Searching online can be risky cause your partner can track your online searches…

Safely, Time, dates, names & how you felt, record then transfer to a USB stick & keep safe. Know your civil & legal rights!! ( don’t be bamboozled like l was), Financial Independence…. save, put money away if possible. It’s hard cause l know that well. Make have copies of passports, birth certificates, marriage certificates, You can keep these outside the house, maybe a neighbour or trusted friend  PLSSSSS DIAL 999, ALWAYS CALL THE POLICE ( Don’t be like me always calling Pastors), Also teach your children how to call 999 or call 101 to report Non emergency.

Recall that the actress turned psychotherapist who is based in London is divorced from husband due to the abuse.

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